"What always happens, life."
Life can catch up to us & things can get pretty messy simply because life keeps moving & it's not going to stop for anyone. We adjust to the situations that it gives us, and can we chose to suffer or rise above and force ourselves to try again. Picking ourselves back up again when we are pushed to the ground is really difficult & you can pretend all you want that being on the ground is a lot easier...but we both know it's not. So, pick up your broke ass self, and start again. Life can be pretty upsetting BUT it can be even more AMAZING & we should start taking the time to remember that.
As Zooey Deschanel (500 Days of Summer) answered, "What always happens, life" when asked about her past relationships, I really thought about how so many people need explanations to why things happened the way they did. There always seems to be so many stories to just one situation, and so many people replaying what they did wrong over and over until they pin point something to help themselves sleep at night.
One thing I've found out is when you leave high school you start meeting new groups of people, youre going to different schools, people travel, and people can simply drift because life can get busy & before we know it 'see you later' becomes 'text you later' to 'we have to get together soon, it's been too long' & so on. In some cases it's unavoidable & life just happens & whether we want to drift from people or not, we just do. It's really no ones fault & it's not worth the headache of 'who calls first' or 'you never text me' type of arguments because it won't get you anywhere.
When it comes to romantic relationships sometimes as much as we want something to work, it just doesn't and as I'm slowly growing up, I am finding that I am changing & my views on a lot of aspects of life are different than they once were. I thought that was wrong & that I was changing and I was scared to lose someone that use to know me so well & now didn't. I didn't want to force myself to stay with someone because I was fearful of evolving and now I am coming to find out that you can't force things upon yourself because you are afraid.
Life happens whether we are ready or not.
xo,
Mady
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